Who do you serve?

A co-worker of mine ask me this questions back in 2001. Of course you know what I said; I serve the Lord!! What kind of question was that???? Then she said, I think you serve your boyfriend more than you serve the Lord. I looked at her like she was crazy. How could she know that. I try to act like I did not know what she was talking about but, she was right. Now just to let you know I was born again. However, I was still fornicating, looking at sexual explicted movies, and whatever he wanted I did. No matter how much he disrepected me, I thought I love this man. To top it off I did not love myself..So after that conversation with my co-worker who was born again and had a bless marriage. That conversation stayed with me for along time. So I asked myself, are going to serve the Lord all the way or man? Then is I saw 1Corn.7:23(msg) it says; All of you, slave and free both, were once held hostage in a sinful society. Then a huge sum was paid out for your ransom. So please don't, out of old habit, slip back into being or doing what everyone else tells you. Friends, stay where you were called to be. God is there. Hold the high ground with him at your side...That hit me like a ton of bricks. So I started to go to bible study every week and attending church on every Sunday. Now just to let you know I stil had my boyfriend after I got this revelation. But hold fast, stay with me. So over the course of some months I was starting to really get a understanding of how God love me and gave is son for me. How I was a virtious women!!! I was the head and not the tail!!!, I was above and never beneath!!! So I started to share this with my boyfriend however, he did not want no parts of this. So I was still going to church and reading my bible. Time went on and we starting see each other less and less.....It bothered me a little but, I never stop going to church and bible study. So one day he ask me to do something, and for once I told him NO!!! We got into this big argurement....So he hangs up on me....I did not hear from him until a few months later. By that time I was serving the Lord all the way. I let him know that I could not do this anymore, this is not healthy for neither one of us, and I decided I was going to serve the Lord. I was going to wait until my Boaz come a sweep me off my feet. And you know what.... The Lord bless me with a wonderful husband who loves me and cherish the grown I walk on. When you serve the Lord with all your heart, see what you get. Now don't get me wrong I serve my Husband and I will serve him all the days of my life. However I will serve the Lord first all the days of my life. I know this was long..But, I am here to encourage you by any means necessary:) So stop serving man and serve the Lord!!! He will give you double for your trouble!!!! Be Bless:)