Married Women Only

Hey my married girlz!!!!!



I did not forget about you. Let me start by asking you this questions....do you know how to spell marriage? I know, you are thinking is she crazy. Of course I know how to spell marriage. But, do you really???? Well I spell marriage, w-o-r-k. That's right marriage is work.



Some married women think that after they get married your work is finish and that everything is suppose to live happily ever after....NOT!!!! You have to put work into it, that means overtime if you want to have a bless marriage. Check this out you have to cook, clean, take care of the kids, work, and drop it like its hot. Regardless of how he acts. I know you are saying, Tracie you don't know my husband he is acting like a plum fool. But, you do your part. When you go meet the Lord, he is going to judge you by what you did, not him. Now, don't get me wrong if the 3-A's are present then you need to get out of there. If you don't know the 3-A's it is; addiction, adultery, and abuse. So I tell women if there are not signs of the 3-A's then you can't leave. You have the power of influence. You can win your husband over by your actions. (not by nagging him)



I know a lot of women who wanted their marriage and they had to make changes to make that happen, even when it did not look like it was going to get any better. That's right sometimes we have to make the change if you want to see change. No matter how long it takes. I have made my marriage the way I wanted to see it by confession and prayer. It can happen, I am living witness. Now, don't get me wrong I still work on my marriage everyday, because I realize that it is not about me. It's about pleasing Jesus and wanting be an example that can influence, impact, and encourage other married couples that it can work, you just have to work it....Be Bless!!!!